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“Nope, this just ain’t good!” How many times in our lives have we had those or similar words bouncing around inside our skulls? Yeah, I’ve lost count, too!

There are usually only a few reasons these annoying words show up. Occasionally, it’ll be when we just run smack-dab into an “Oh Sh–! situation. You know what I mean. Accidents, diseases and a whole bunch of other stuff that seem to have popped up out of nowhere and suddenly we find ourselves up to our neck in swamp water with alligators nipping at our butts.

Now admittedly, some of these situations that seem to pop up out of nowhere are a normal result of the things we personally did or didn’t do. We made our own bed and suddenly we’re forced to either lie in it or start ripping off the sheets. Don’t ya just hate it when that happens?

Other times, an event occurs that honestly is completely beyond our control. These are just unfortunately, part of life. Natural disasters, impulsive or inconsiderate actions by other folks and many diseases fall into this category. Once again, we’re put into a position where we’ll likely need to do something that we never would have wanted to do in the first place. Dang the bad luck…

In both of these types of situations, we’re forced into a position of either having to “act” or suffer the undesirable consequences. Most of us will then put our logic and maybe even our survival instincts to work to do those things we need to do to try to overcome our yucky situation. More often than not, we’ll succeed. Cool!

But what about those situations that quietly sneak up on you? You know the ones I’m talking about. It’s the job that started out to be pretty good and later on down the road has turned into drudgery and uncertainty. The relationship that was once built on caring and compassion which has deteriorated into indifference or abuse. The life path that was once paved and well maintained that has made a gradual transition into a muddy cow path. Now what?

Unfortunately, because the rate of change from “great” to “crappy” was so gradual, we tend to be reasonably well adapted to our present situation even though it may be quite uncomfortable. We may even be resigned to the fact that “this is the way it is” - or feel that we have invested so much time and effort into our circumstances that it just wouldn’t be worthwhile to try to make any changes. We feel trapped - and annoyed by those danged words bouncing back and forth inside our heads. “This just ain’t good!” “This just ain’t good!”

Oh, if only this were one of those sudden “Oh Sh–!” situations. If it were only a matter of immediate urgency. Then I’ll bet we’d do something. We’d take action and work to overcome our emergency. It’d be a matter of survival!

You don’t have to be a psychic to know where I’m going with this, do you? Nah, it’s pretty obvious. An uncomfortable condition - whether it suddenly pops into our lives or develops over a period of several years - is still an uncomfortable condition. Yeah, this is one of those “If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck…” well, you know the rest…

And that bring us to our “This Just Ain’t Good” checklist. When we find ourselves in uncomfortable or undesirable situations, we only have two initial choices.

1. Do Nothing - This of course, is the easiest course of action and is absolutely guaranteed to bring about zero change. Things will continue to be as they are right now. (Is this the way you really want to finish out your life…?)

2. Do Something - This is the more difficult of the two choices because it immediately creates two more choices.

A. Take action to change the situation - Change jobs, relationships, life path or whatever condition is causing the discomfort.

B. Take action to change yourself - Your thought processes, the way you view your job, relationships, etc.

That’s it! That’s all the more complicated the initial decision-making process is. And yeah, I know that our “do something” may actually wind up being a combination of modifying both ourselves and our situation. And the actual steps we may be required to take to make those changes may be rather involved and take a bunch of time and effort on our part. That’s OK - if we’re genuinely interested in making a change. That’s just the way life is.

Of course, the basic requirement for making any changes - either within our situation or within ourselves - is “Do Something”. Take action. Set some goals for the changes we want, decide what we need to do to get there and get crankin’.

So if you’re trudging through life with “This just ain’t good!” ringing in your head, use the preceding checklist to decide what you really want to do. And above all, ask yourself the question, “Is this really the way I want the rest of my life to be?”

You’ll know what you should do…

About The Author

Gene, through NuPathz.com, provides an easy reading self-help blog, articles and links along with affordable books and materials written to help folks find the road to a more enjoyable lifestyle, to pass on some of life’s “secrets for survival” in a chaotic world & offer a few smiles along the way. It’s a down-to-earth, simple approach to discovering a better life. You can visit Gene at http://www.nupathz.com/

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Before I left Singapore, my aspired DJ-to-be Malaysian buddy, Chee Kiang, burnt for me my favorite Ministry of Sound - The Annual 2005 Deluxe CD. He attempted some modifications to the hits, not without the Zouk influence, the club everyone talks about in Singapore where he is a frequenter.

I didn’t quite feel any distinction from the original record.

Perhaps he is not too familiar with music editing yet (after all, Chee Kiang only has a laptop equipped with a Windows Media Player burner). What negligence, when music morphing features are already so comprehensive, covering almost all there could be to audio morphing!

And the developing music editing softwares are making the list even longer. Not long ago, mixers used to be limited to only 5 file extensions (.wav, .mp2, .mp3, .ogg and .wma). Now, the products of Audio4Fun and Sony support almost all the extensions there are (up to 14). Conversion of songs under different formats into as many types is no longer an edge, but a norm with these music editor-players.

Not only in quantity, but the quality of the output is also enhanced, with special attention to the pitch and timbre of the sound effects. And don’t be surprised getting to know that some music morphers now allow you unlimited freestyle mix-and-match of customized extractions of songs (yes, you can extract all the best verses of your favorite songs to create your own mega-hit). This defining feature is perhaps best demonstrated in the AV Music Morpher Gold.

A hip mixer is one who plays not only good music, but his own good music as well. These music juke boxes take as good care of specific wants of the demanding DJ as that of his above-mentioned special needs. He could drive clubbers hysterically spinning by mixing his voice into any hip-hop favorites, and further adding built-in juke effects or any of his pre-mixed sounds. That is how far the music editors have been developed, to help DJs keep clubbers screaming for more.

Perhaps what distinguishes the music editing concept from other high-end digital streams (DVD morphing for instance) is that the technology is so user-friendly and complete that any average home DJ now can produce his own CDs, fully personalized, from music to CD cover. All Music Morphers of Audio4Fun support such thorough form of customization, though it is hardly seen elsewhere in the market.

So how has the market embraced these creative editing tools? There are over 10 major music software producers, with big names such as Audio4Fun, Adobe and Sony (Audio4Fun is more specialist, as Adobe is more known for its PDF readers while Sony is an omnipresent titan). Products are for sale from a mere $9.95 to only $99.95, about the price of a DVD player. Free downloads of music editing softwares are also available on the web (legally, of course).

The combination of an extensive supply chain, low pricing and numerous support features might herald an age of home recording audios, where home DJs savor unique mix-medleys that even the Zouk clubbers crave for.

Oh my, Chee Kiang is going to love it if I get him one such Music Morpher for his coming birthday

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A brain injury caused by cutting the oxygen supply to the brain is known as anoxic brain injury. These types of injuries are most commonly caused during swimming accidents or other accidents in water. These injuries can also be caused during a surgery. In other words, whenever the blood is not able to carry sufficient oxygen to the brain this could result in an anoxic brain injury.

It takes a very long time for the victim to recover, and it may not be possible to have 100 percent recovery in case of such injuries. If you feel that this injury to you to your loved one has been caused by the negligence of a third party, then you should contact an attorney who specializes in handling such cases. If you are not able to reach one or cannot afford one, try to contact an attorney or a law firm that deals in brain injury cases. If that is not possible, then go for a personal injury attorney.

These are complicated cases, and the compensation sought is substantial, so one should always prefer a specialized attorney. Moreover, anoxic brain injury cases are often very complicated. It is not so easy to prove negligence, as the victim is often not in a condition to be a witness or to recount what happened to him or her. The attorneys dealing with such cases must have a sound knowledge of not only the law, but also the basics of medical science. They have to rely on a team to prepare the case. The team comprises of not only legal experts but also medical experts.

That is why hiring a good attorney for any such case is an expensive affair. Many law firms prefer to keep highly paid attorneys who deal with only these types of cases. So, as an attorney, it might not be a bad move to specialize in this particular stream.

Brain Injury Attorneys provides detailed information on Brain Injury Attorneys, Traumatic Brain Injury Attorneys, Aquired Brain Injury Attorneys, Anoxic Brain Injury Attorneys and more. Brain Injury Attorneys is affiliated with Finding Brain Injury Lawyers.

Brazil seems to be the World Cup favorite, but will they meet the expectations?

The ritual of speculating about the possible winner belongs to the introduction of every World Cup. Such a ritual fulfills more than one function. It is a way of warming up for the supporters. They enter the game, even before the first match is played. Speculation is an emotional activity and emotion increases commitment; it turns you from mere spectator into a passionate supporter.

And a team cannot without support. Imagine if the players would have to do without a crowded tribune; the game wouldn’t be the same. But back to Brazil, the favorite team of this World Cup.
Those that are genuine in favor will vote for Brazil as being real supporters. They have no stake other then that they are emotionally and rationally involved: Emotional in the sense that they like the style of the team and rationally knowing that Brazil is an exporter of football talent.

There are two side effects however of this ritual, which will affect the favorite — in this case the Brazilian team.
First there is the effect of the “subject” influencing the “object”; the more we want Brazil to win, the more difficult it will be for them to do so. In fact Brazil just played against Croatia and although they did manage to beat them, it was only by a slight difference.

The other side of this bet (speculation) is that it is not only a genuine game. It is not for those that have a real stake in winning this Cup. This is part of a strategy where you try to debilitate the opponent by praising him. This is an inverted case of intimidation. Compare this with boxing. You meet someone in the ring and you have previously observed your opponent. You think you will at least equal him. Then you have others spread the rumor that the protagonist is stronger. This will increase the confidence of this boxer. This confidence however should be his nightmare, because there is no way that he is better, unless he has proven it to be.

The best team is the one that controls emotions best. You can see this when penalties are taken after a prolongation that ends even. Then is the moment of truth. All players are equally talented. Those who control their emotions best will not fail the penalties.

As for Brazil, although they have just won their first game and are for six to go, I think that they are still one behind…

© 2006 Hans Bool

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How Much is Your House Worth?

Yesterday Zillow announced the launch of their real estate information site, offering free valuations on more than 60 million homes across the United States. You can see the estimated value of your house, your neighbor’s house, or just about any other home in the country — whether it’s for sale or not. That’s cool. Just enter an address, and you can view not only the valuation, but all of the info below for every home in the neighborhood:

The inconvenience of having to drive to a offline gaming establishment provides plenty of reasons to give up on it unless one must go there. All those traffic jams, the inconvenience, and tasks at hand are too much struggle only for that prospect of placing your bets at offline gaming establishment, on the other hand, in case you’re the type that absolutely enjoys betting rooms then going virtual is surely the more obvious answer.

It isn’t required to leave the comfort of your home to go for online video poker etc since everything is done from your home provided you possess a personal computer plus an Internet access account. But, I’d recommend you go on reading for there are several tips which you’ll definitely want to figure out concerning online video poker etc, the more so should you be a rookie regarding this field. So quell those hormones to read and absorb what follows here. Here is my terse framework which is intended to explain what to remember when deciding on a trustworthy online video poker etc Web site. The top priority which every quick-witted web punter will make certain to suss out is an online video poker etc website of the category that promotes the best odds. See below for a select number of alternative facts concerning spotting your online casino fun website.

You positively must be sure to establish the online casino fun website is actually licensed, e.g. by looking for the govt. license as presented on the casino site page. If you fail to localize any govt. license on a given online casino fun website, don’t even attempt any casinos with this site. Following that you will deliberate guardedly the variety of premiums that the online casino fun website offers.

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Beyond, further great advice is obviously to lay your bets at the beginning with minute sums instead of fooling away big amounts of money straight off. First of all, check the integrity and status of this particular online casino fun organization before going for any severe injury- the more so financial ones… The final remark concerning online video poker. It can obviously only be this: to never lose sight of the fact that all kinds of gaming rooms should be merely about amusing yourself and not about big dollars. Gambling in online casinos is certainly no chore, but a diversion which is intended to let you feel bright and your life as a whole satisfying.

After you have complied with the cues outlined, you can bow to the enchantment of online casino fun…

Drake & Cavendish launch specialist, advertisement free, luxury hotel and villa directory. Drake & Cavendish says “the new site is a great resource for independent travellers to research and review luxury hotels and villas across the world…and it actually gives users what they want, a direct link to the actual hotel or villa they are interested in”.

The site caters for both property owners and travellers by providing a comprehensive collection of hotels and villas with direct links and contact details to the property’s own website. Many hotels now offer ‘price promises’ to guarantee that booking directly with them is the cheapest way to book - so everyone benefits, clients get the best price, and hoteliers don’t have to pay out a travel agent commission.

Launched with 5000 luxury properties in 200 countries; Drake & Cavendish include luxury hotels from the all the major international chains as well as small independent hotels, and the branded hotels of Leading Hotels of the World, Small Luxury Hotels, Johnasens and Great Hotels of the World.

Hotel and villa owners see a single luxury branded site as a great tool to attract direct clients and Drake & Cavendish estimate that another 5000 luxury hotels and villas will be added onto the site over the next 12 months. Luxury property owners are encouraged to contact them at include@drakeandcavendish.com to add their hotel or villa onto the site.

An additional feature is a comprehensive review centre which Drake & Cavendish believe will prove to be an unrivalled tool for any luxury travel buyer before making their reservation. As the site is so new it is a little difficult to gauge its usefulness at this time, but the hope is that users will add and contribute to the site over time.

Drake & Cavendish also believe that travel agents will embrace the new site as it provides them with a single resource with which to advise their clients.

You can visit this website at - www.drakeandcavendish.com

The other day I drove from Chicago to Northwest Indiana on the Indiana Toll Road. I usually have quite a bit of loose change and pay the tolls by throwing the correct amount into the basket, thereby saving a few seconds. But this time I didn’t have any change so I went through the attended lane and handed a dollar bill to the attendant.

He gave me a cheerful “Hi!” as I handed him the money and then said, “Have a safe day!” as he put the change in my hand. I was so dumbfounded by the exchange that I barely had time to reply, “You too!” as I smiled and accelerated back on the road. “Wow! I just saw the world’s friendliest toll road attendant - today’s my lucky day!” I thought to myself as I drove. I had to pay one more toll and got the same reception - a smile and a warm greeting with my change. I wondered whether the planets had aligned differently or somehow the attendants had mistaken me for some Hollywood celebrity and gave me the royal treatment.

I mentioned my experience later to one of my cynical friends who said, “they probably heard that a “courtesy inspector” is coming through today.” Well that may be so, but whatever the reason, those two people exceeded my expectations, put a smile on my face and, even if they were faking it, helped make my journey pleasant. I’d much rather see an insincere smile that a sincere frown any day.

When dealing with customers, staff, vendors, we all have the same opportunity to help make their journey more pleasant with a smile, a pleasant remark. Even if we are having a rotten day ourselves, even if our feet hurt, even if we are tired of taking tolls, making change and trying to be pleasant we still have that obligation to ease the journey of those with whom we come in contact with. Inspire yourself and your staff to be pleasant, polite, and positive - it will put a smile your customers faces and smooth the bumps in the road.

Larry Galler coaches and consults with high-performance executives, professionals, and small businesses since 1993. He is the writer of the long-running (every Sunday since November 2001) business column, “Front Lines with Larry Galler” Sign up for his free newsletter at http://www.larrygaller.com Questions??? Send an email to larry@larrygaller.com

The theory of evolution and the belief in a Creator have long been considered
separate and mutually exclusive realms of human thought . Strict interpretations by
scientists of Darwin’s theory of species adaptation through natural selection must
inherently run contrary to equally strict interpretations of Genesis I. This is true
because of the profound discrepancies that exist between the two explanations of
human origin.

The most notable of these discrepancies are the belief in the fixity of species and,
more importantly in terms of this debate, the age of the earth. The belief in a
relatively young earth, created in approximately 4004 B.C. (Jurmain, Nelson, Kilgore,
Trevathan; Essentials of Physical Anthropology; p.25), cannot coexist in any logical
manner with an evolutionary theory whose foundation rests upon the presumption
of an earth billions, not thousands, of years old. Extremists in both camps have
compiled a history of inflammatory remarks that have led many to the conclusion
that broad acceptance of the theory of evolution is tantamount to eliminating God,
and hence, morality, the soul, and the essence of what it is to be human.

Fortunately a new debate has begun, as old assumptions about evolution, especially
macroevolution, and the literal interpretation of the Bible, have begun to be
challenged. Religious scientists have recently begun to develop explanations based
on modern interpretations of Genesis which allow for the coexistence of God and
evolutionary theory. Loren Haarsma, a neuroscience researcher at Tufts University,
in a January ‘96 article in The World & I, highlights one such group. Dubbed
“progressive creationists” (Haarsma; Why believe in a creator?: Perspectives on
Evolution; p.5), these scientists find flaws with the common practice of pairing the
widely accepted and empirically supported microevolutionary theory with the much
broader and less empirical theory of macroevolution.

Microevolution can be studied in laboratories and in nature over time, and its focus
is on the mutations that occur in individual species due to environmental changes
and natural selection. According to Haarsma, there is little debate over
microevolutionary principals, even among strict creationist fundamentalists,
because of the vast amount of empirical evidence available (Haarsma; Why believe in
a creator?: Perspectives on Evolution; p.1). In the case of macroevolution, however,
the same environmental and selective forces, which are observed in individual
species in mostly small but measurable ways, are applied to all living and extinct
species.

The problem with macroevolution, progressive creationists contend, is that no one
has yet to even hypothesize how the complex adaptation of a species is possible
through the incremental mutation observed in, for example, Darwin’s famous
Galapagos finches . Lending to the problems with macroevolution as stated by
Darwin is the presumption that evolutionary change by natural selection and
environmental factors would be gradual and thus apparent in the fossil record of the
earth. Analysis of the fossil record does not suggest a gradual change in species,
argue progressive creationists and other skeptical scientists. Fossils indicate instead
that there were long periods of little or no change followed by violent and extreme
mutations in species (Jurmain, Nelson, Kilgore, Trevathan; Essentials of Physical
Anthropology; p.217).

One explanation of this phenomenon is a model of evolutionary change termed
punctuated equilibrium (Jurmain, Nelson, Kilgore, Trevathan; Essentials of Physical
Anthropology; p.217). Another model, postulated by progressive creationists,
predicts the sudden appearance of new species and long periods of little or no
change in the fossil record due to intervention by the Creator. Scientists have since
adapted Darwin’s original theory to allow for periods of rapid change due to
extreme environmental factors , but all the aforementioned hypothesis share one
commonality: none can be proven or disproved adequately. While most of the
scientific community still support a close connection between microevolution and
macroevolution, for the first time since before Darwin published Origin of the
Species creationists can say they are on a nearly equal footing scientifically with
other theorists of human origin.

Other creationist factions such as young-earth creationists and evolutionary
creationists argue opposite ends of the creationist spectrum (progressive
creationists fall somewhere in between) and are represented in the scientific
community as well (Haarsma; Why believe in a creator?: Perspectives on Evolution; p.
4). Indeed, physical anthropologists are no longer easily labeled. In a 1997 study
published in Nature and conducted by Edward Larson of the University of Georgia,
Athens, 40% of physicists and biologists were found to hold strong spiritual beliefs
(Easterbrook; Science and God: A Warming Trend?; p.2), further dismantling the long
held generalization that those in the physical sciences are either anti-religious
atheists or agnostics. Gregg Easterbrook, in an August 1997 article in Science,
proposes that the current dialogue between science and God is fostered by the
difficult ethical questions raised by discoveries such as cloning, as well as pragmatic
considerations.

Mainstream faith must, in Easterbrook’s opinion, show that it can accommodate
evolutionary theory to continue to attract increasingly well educated advocates
(Easterbrook; Science and God: A Warming Trend?; p.2). Meanwhile, Easterbrook
argues, scientists must be sensitive to the fact that American’s lack of proficiency in
science is due primarily to the assumption held by students that science will attempt
to destroy their religious beliefs (Easterbrook; Science and God: A Warming Trend?;
p.2).

Whether or not the two sides ever come to agreement on the origin of our species,
one cannot help but be relieved that the quandary of choosing between a world
where the soul is sacrificed for enlightenment or a world of ignorant bliss has
proved to be a false dilemma. One of the founding principals of science is that
uncertainty is the only certainty; and given that, there will always be a place in the
intellectual realm for a Creator. Indeed, one may not be able to reason oneself to
faith, theologians would say it impossible, but given the modern dialogue between
religious and non-religious scientists, reason no longer stands in the way as it once
did.

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You invest a lot of time and money into the steaks for a special occasion and when dinner time comes, they are tough. What happened? How can you cook steaks as tender as your favorite restaurant?

The first step to cooking a good steak is to choose the right grade of steak. The top quality beef is graded USDA Prime and commands top prices. USDA Prime grade meats are sold to the restaurant industry and specialty markets and are not as likely to be found at your local grocery chain. The next grade of beef is USDA Choice. USDA Choice is tender, flavorful and only slightly lower in quality than USDA Prime. The meat is well marbled with fat and will be tender and juicy when properly prepared. USDA Choice makes up about 70% of all graded beef and is readily available in your supermarket. USDA Good graded beef is an acceptable grade of beef that has only minimal marbling of fat. It is leaner, but may not be as tender as USDA Prime or Choice.

Next, look at the color and texture of the meat. A good steak should be firm to the touch, moist, and bright in color. It should be well marbled with thin streaks of white fat throughout and a thin crust of steak on the outside. In our fat conscious society, we tend to look for lean cuts of meat, but the thin streaks of white fat marbled throughout the meat are the key to a tender juicy steak.

The most tender and juicy steaks come from the sirloin, the short loin, and the rib. These steaks include the sirloin steaks, porterhouse steaks, t-bone steaks, rib steaks, delmonico steaks, and the filet mignons. Steaks containing bone will weigh more than those without, but the bone adds flavor to the steak.

Aging is a desirable process that intensifies the flavors and makes the meat more tender. Aged steaks are more expensive and usually only found in high end supermarkets and specialty markets. An aged steak is recognizable by its darker color.

Once you have purchased your steak, you can further increase the tenderness and juiciness by marinating it. Try a marinade made of cup each good wine and olive oil mixed 2 Tablespoons of lemon juice or herb vinegar. Add any seasonings that you like such as garlic, freshly ground pepper, onion, or herbs. Place the steak in a ziplock bag, pour in enough marinade to just cover it, and refrigerate overnight. Marinating a steak like this will add flavor and tenderness. If you routinely store steak in the freezer before cooking, try pouring the marinade over the steak before freezing. The steak will marinate when thawing and be ready to cook.

There are meat tenderizers available to sprinkle onto your steak, and they certainly do tenderize the meat; however, meat tenderizers can sometimes over tenderize the meat, changing the texture of the meat into mush. If you should choose to go this route, do it carefully.

When ready to cook, slash through the outside fat layer on the steak in a few places to prevent curling, but do not cut into the meat. The more tender steak cuts can be broiled, grilled, or pan fried. Less tender cuts should be pan fried or slow braised. Steak should never be cooked in liquid. When pan broiling, use a very heavy skillet such as an iron skillet or griddle and heat the pan before adding the meat. The heavy metal will hold the heat for proper heat distribution and not cool down when the steak is added. A hot pan will quickly sear the outside, trapping the moisture inside.

When cooking, try to turn the steak only once. Cook the meat until browned on one side and half done, then turn and finish the other side. Turning too often will stew the meat rather than searing it and produce a less juicy steak. When the steak is done, remove from the pan and allow to rest for a few minutes before serving.

While the meat rests you can make a sauce with the pan drippings if desired. Use your favorite sauce, or fry mushrooms and onions in the pan. When nearly done, add a tablespoon each of butter and flour and cook until lightly browned. Add a splash of wine and loosen any bits that may be stuck to the bottom of the pan. Allow to cook until thick, taste and adjust seasonings, and serve over the steak. Enjoy!

Diane Watkins is a traditional style southern cook. She offers tips, recipes, and stories about growing up in the south at Easy Southern Cooking.